Need Help With a Girl

Wtf....no the girl rejected me, she was only 3 years younger than me, and she didnt have any children.
Also, dateing a mother to get to her daughter is wrong. If , and this is a big IF , i were to have a relationship with a little girl, dateing her mother would be unfair to both of them. I guess im just not the cheating type.

Thx you Asuka...it means alot

Sorry you felt the sting of rejection.

If you can get that 'thing' I've been talking about handled, your confidence in your own new-found feelings will come through to whomever you're courting.

Souther noted

IF I were to have...a relationship with a little girl...

See, when you say "a relationship with a little girl" you know and I know that you're using 'relationship' in the adult sense of the term - a 'real' relationship with sexual intimacy, mutuality, equality, sharing of mutually enjoyable adult experiences, and so on. But see, if therapy were working effectively, Souther, you'd know that a real relationship with the qualities mentioned above just cannot happen with a little girl. You wouldn't say it. You'd say: If I assaulted a little girl, or received sexual gratification from her. Or words of that ilk, showing empathy (not sexual equality) with the child.

You also wouldn't focus on a tertiary issue like 'cheating' because the gravity of the child intimate pursuit would impress itself on your mind. And 'cheating' would be the least of your concerns.

Take a break from dating. It can interfere with what you're trying to accomplish in therapy. Or disclose it to your new partners. Either way, concealing it won't be very 'real' or 'adult'.

Souther wrote:Science proves women are attracted to money and someone who will support them, so why do they alwas go for the guy who sleeps with everyone and is displays a lack of intelligence?

i don't know what science book you have been reading, but you are wrong. I will tell you what women really want. You will be surprised! Women really want...Are you ready?.....Women really want a most normal guy! I am talking about the middle of the bell curve here. They want a safe choice. Not too extreme in any way. If you think about it, guys really want is a normal girl, but women are even more risk averse than men are.