how to deal with aspergers?

i know exactly what you all mean here because i have aspergers syndrome aswell (most likely anyway). read my other post thing: http://www.psychforums.com/viewtopic.ph ... 388#190388

but with me i want to talk to people aswell i just cant find the words, ever, no matter what sometimes. i know it sounds stupid but even if you want to talk, sometimes you just cant, and this can make (me at least) feel a little uneasy about it. it can be quite tense.

anyway i find that sometimes tho i dont have much of a problem with it so i guess you will have to just catch him at the right time

Hey I am an Aspie also. Just wanted to tell you that there is a bright side. Over time he should warm up to you and open up more. It usually takes me a few months to get to were I can hold a conversation with somebody and about 6 months until I can start feeling comfortable talking with them. Also here is a good write up on the subject that hits on relationships. Don’t let it scare though as long as you know what your dealing with its only a challenge.

http://www.mental-health-matters.com/articles/article.php?artID=868

Hey, sorry that I didn't respond for so long.
Well, two months ago, he meant that I am becoming stalkerish, just because I tried to talk to him. I think it is too complex, on the one hand he wants someone to understand him and on the other hand he ignores someone who is interested in what he's saying. Two days ago I wrote a message to him, but he didn't answer, so I guess I should forget him, thoug it's really regrettable.

Thanks for all your comments and thoughts.

michael