???Interpretation of this girl's behavior. :/

So recently I met a girl. Once in a while I recognized that she is looking at me. But when I turned my head to her she looked away (with a little smile on her face). Newly I recognized her bestgirlfriend look at me in the same way as well (as if both have talked about me - but of course I don't know for sure). Well, I started emailing this girl (the girl not her friend). After she emailed me back I wrote her again. But then she stopped suddenly writing me back, after I asked her, how long she's gonna to stay there (a simple and harmless question I think). (<-we both are abroad in different countries now)

What I have to mention is, that she has shown this ambivalent bahavior to me a lot of times. Sometimes she acts touchy, then she acts nicely. But, as far as I've noticed, she doesn't display this bahavior to her friends/ acquaintances.

Furthermore she sometimes acts intentionally repellent. A few times she doesn't greet me. Yeah! She just pass me without deigning to look at me. But when I ask her a favor she is willingly to do it. Whats that for a person?!? C'mon women reveal us your secret!

What do you think what kind of girl is? Why she is acting like this?

Thanks in advance!

Hey,

Perhaps she likes you but is afraid to make the first move and is, therefore, waiting for you to ask her out somewhere. The little starres and smiles would indicate this. Plus - yes - they are obviously discussing you behind the scenes.

Kevin.

Perhaps she wants to keep you guessing? As I am sure most women won't want to appear "boring" per the constant refining of their image through the requirements of fashion/image. She wants to make sure she looks good not just by your standard, but everyone who could see you with her. Therefore, she is maybe a little nervous and not yet ready to put herself on display.
She may very well be feeling that on certain days she is confident and may be more relaxed with you and more open, and on other days she may not feel very attractive or confident. Remember, it doesn't have to always be you or an external thing that could be the problem or cause of her actions. It may be her perception of herself in the situation.

Yes, radames is correct: There are days when girls don't feel as if they are attractive (even though they are) and, on those days, they probably won't be as flirtatious. It's tough being a girl - I imagine - due to all of the pressure that is heaped onto them to look good. The truth of the matter is, however, that they always look good, irrespective of how their hair is done, what clothes they are wearing, or how much make-up they have on.

Kevin.

So you want to say that she wants me to make the first move? But why she hasn't answered my last e-mail, yet? I mean this would be the best way to let me make the first move. If she would answered my e-mail it would give me the opportunity to make the first move.

You just have to be patient. It's possible that she may not be interested anymore. It's not anything you may have done, it's just chemistry. I don't mean based on looks either.

Honestly if I were you I would get it over with and ask her if she is interested or not, then you will know for sure and not go crazy over it.

e. speaks the truth. Whenever I get the idea that a girl likes me anymore, I just go straight out and ask them what the story is. I have done this twice within the past year and I am very good friends with both girls. One of them was actually interested in me but was dating a guy at the time (and is still with him).

Kevin.