What to say when you don't know what to say?

I've always been one with words but sometimes i don't know what to say. I'm just a teen in a teen relationship so there are no big commentment issues, just simple issues as such. Sometimes i feel boring, and i don't want to, however, it's who i am, if i don't know what to say i don't know what to say. Sometimes i don't even want to talk because i have nothing to say, i don't want to piss her off or lead her away because i might make her feel insecure by saying i don't want to talk. I suppose i could do it in a respectfull nice manner, i'm still afraid she will take it the wrong way and respond negatively.

Not a trivial question.

I have been in a relationship for 3 years now. Its my first long relationship..

as far as conversing and sharing silences. I find that sharing nothing brings us closer. Even if its online... just being there If there is something is big enough, I think, to sustain a relationship.

Do you feel you are hiding things from her? Or you just run out of things to say or get tired of talking?

I always find this step of the relationship to be a good sign.. a sign that you are comfortable with the person enough to just sit and be.

Words can get in the way.. thats why i like forums and blogs... you think a little more before typing than speaking. I always find myself gossiping when i chat on the phone.... Forums like this are productive.. well most of the time.. haha

Hey well at least your trying to fix the situation by asking for advice thats a good sign =]
First of all talking is probably one of the hardest things in relationships especially to your partner. If your partner chooses to love you for who you are then she most likely wouldn't mind you being a quiet person, she probably likes you because of that.
Sometimes people can find themselves in a situation where they run out of things to say, and they start talking crap ... and its those kinda things that i believe girls hate.
So do as you feel, if you're still unsure maybe sit her down and grab her opinion, i mean, at leasts it gives you something to talk about

Good Luck =]

Thanks a bunch


I think it's mostly difficult to talk to her because she has anger problems, add problems and is chronic depresent. It makes it difficult to say anything because anything could set her off. I try to stay sweet and say positive things to her, sometimes she flips it around. Making it harder to stay happy. And when i don't talk she complains about being bored or she complains i'm not talking to her. Her mood is so easily changed, sometimes i just don't know what to do. It's so hard. I'm probably just ranting now. Sorry :/

well if you love her then you just probably have to be more lenient and more considerate that she has all those problems, not saying you don't, but if you love her try stick in there for a while, if there's something bothering you then you've always got people around yu t talk o, not to mention this forum =]

thanks man, i know it's hard but it's so much harder for her and she deserves to have someone to stick in there for her and care. I do love her.

Thanks for that. It's nice to go somewhere to sort out your issues.