daze of days

Hi, pinknblackdots. I got my husband into individual therapy by asking him to come to couples therapy to "help me". Once he saw that some of my issues were being made worse by his behavior and that he couldn't explain why he was behaving that way individual therapy was a logical next step. Not all men are going to make that logical leap, and many people get very defensive if you even suggest therapy. I hope you and your BF can works things out.