Hi,
Thanx for the reply.
Well, yes, I know that, that would be the best if I tried more to find someone. Most likely there are people who are better than him, but it is hard to look at anyone else if you are in love into someone. Perhaps with time. But I think that, if it is a true love, you would not be able to find someone else and love someone else just like that. I think you would need to let go the first person before you are able to trully love another person. If you can just switch from one person to another, or love both in the same time, then I think you did not trully love the first person in the first place. So, yea, with time, I will probably focus on finding someone else. But I would need time for that. But since I love this guy for more than a year and it is not fading away, I think I would need quite some time to let this one go. Perhaps years.
In any case I know that it is unlikely that I will find anyone unless I try and look.