In as few words as possible, I am married, but there is another woman to whom I constantly feel INTENSE physical attraction, and I mean INSANE - it's not like I've never met beautiful women before, but for whatever reason, this ONE woman has managed to buy real estate in my brain and light fires inside me from the inside. She is so beautiful - not just her body (which by itself is incredible, and she KNOWS it, posting bikini pictures all over the net), but her eyes, her lips, her hair - she is just crazy, crazy beautiful. (You can tell she knows exactly how beautiful she is by how she does herself up to go out - clothes, makeup, hairstyle - she could be any type of model or actress she wanted.) Staying away from the woman helps, but to make a long story short, I can't stay away from her all the time - she's a BIG part of our family's life.
I saw the woman kiss another man and was devastated by jealousy for days. Eventually she's going to have a boyfriend - if I don't get these feelings under control by then I won't be able to function.
I know I'm not necessarily posting on a forum full of professional psychologists, but if anyone has any thoughts or experience about dealing with these intense feelings of attraction and getting them under control I will really appreciate it.