Hello

I had found my boyfriend cheating I dumped him months ago I cant stop crying. I am really hurting

That sucks. I am sorry you are going through this. Sadly, too many men do this kind of thing. My father cheated on my mother their whole marriage and my mother finally said quits. The experience made me a hard-core monogamist. When I was a young man my number one fear was being cheated on (it happens to men too).

I hope. you are able to move on. I don't know the complexities of your relationship with this man but my general feeling is to not let him back into your life. Find someone honest.