Does my ex-bf have PD or just your average *******?

Thanks Xdude for understanding!

Yeah, I realized dating is not that simple as I used to believe. I only had two long-term bfs before, both developed naturally from friendship with extroverts, one has the best memories. The other was a mixed bag, on and off for several years, we understood each other well though. I briefly dated a few introverts, they were really good people, except the interactions never flew smoothly. Now as people of my age are mostly married or getting married, the people I went out on dates with tended to rush the getting to know you stage, it's hard for me to adjust to this, yikes!