I'm 24 years old and have been seeing a 35 year old man for a few months. It is nothing serious and purely sexual. He has been obsessed with me calling him "Daddy" since we met which I've been totally fine with and likes calling me derogatory terms such as "who**" and "slu*" both in and outside the bedroom. He's very self obsessed, has talked a lot about his "massive dic*" during sex and how I should like that I'm having sex with the "hottest Daddy" in the city.
We haven't engaged in much conversation outside of sex, I've tried multiple times by asking him questions and he'll usually answer and not ask me anything back. He's a successful business man, high up in his business, is very attractive and seems to have a normal life outside of his fetishes. He has said a few weird things during sex in the past which has made me question what is going on with him psychologically although the last time I went to his house, he pushed it further, making me never want to see him again.
Firstly, before I arrived we had been messaging and he said he thinks I would love "Daddy" to be my boyfriend. I replied saying something along the lines of how I'm enjoying being single at the moment and don't want any restrictions. He said he thought is would be a good idea and said I should say "yes Daddy". I told him we'd see how things go (even though it was a clear no in my head). As soon as I arrived that night, he opened the door in his underwear and said he wanted to go to the bedroom straight away (this is usually how it is every time I go over there). During the sex, he mentioned at least 3 times how hot we would "look" together as a couple, said "I love you", said he would love to get me pregnant and then kept talking about how he would love to fu** in front of our kids and how our daughter would turn out to be a slu* like me. I was either disagreeing or not responding and trying to change the subject as I was getting really turned off. He has mentioned this kind of stuff in the past during sex but it's always been brief and I try to push it to the side. He also brings up things from my past I told him once when I was drunk about how I did sexual favours for men when I was 14 for money (I was in a bad situation) and had also talked about how he wishes I was younger and wishes I was 14. He's also mentioned before how much of a compliment it is to him that he's having sex with a 24 year old.
After the sex, we went into the living room and started watching tv although he sat a few inches away from me and didn't touch me at all. When we then went back to the bedroom to sleep, he didn't hug me all night (he has in the past although it has become less and less every time I see him). He's always been emotionally cold towards me. What I find strange is that he has no interest in who I am as a person, has barely gotten into conversation with me at all, has always been disrespectful towards me (over message and in person) yet wants to be in a relationship with me, purely because of how we will "look" together and so he basically can show off to everyone he knows. Everything is all about how he is perceived by others and I've never seen any sign of emotion displayed by him. The sex is also always about him, he controls is all and has never tried to get me off.
Then there's his obsession with having sex in from of our hypothetical future kids and talk about me sexually when I was 14. I'm so confused as to why he is like this, it does make me wonder if maybe he is a pedophile/psychopath or both. What are other people's thoughts?