How to stop having a crazy obsessive crush on someone that i

How to stop feeling upset that I have no chance to get with this girl?
there is this tutor I work with in the tutoring lab in college She's great and a wonderful person to be around with. She is about 27 and I am 22 and she is engaged, One thing I noticed about her is that she was very touchy feely. , like patting me on the back or shoulder.


my class ended last June but we see each other on campus and a lot and always chat. . I realize I have been crushing on her for a while. I am becoming a little obsessed with her. Sometimes I go out of my way to see her I always like thinking about her. But she is engaged and she is older so clearly there is no point. What is a good way to stop having a crush on someone?


in fact my crush on her is becoming obsessive, she is literally all I am thinking about. I think non stop about my next meeting with her. This will clearly damage my life if I let it go on but I don't know what to do

it is not really the crush that is the problem, it's my constant desire to want to see her I realize I have a big crush on her, but I have zero chance with her because she is already engaged. And even if she wasn't engaged I would still have no chance with her because she likely wouldn't want to get with a guy five years younger and I don't even have my own car yet

in fact my crush on her is becoming obsessive, she is literally all I am thinking about. I think non stop about my next meeting with her. This will clearly damage my life if I let it go on but I don't know what to do

it is not really the crush that is the problem, it's my constant desire to want to see her