A question about cheating

How would you feel if your boyfriend/husband cheated on you with another guy?(and you're female)
Or if your girlfriend cheated on you with a woman?(if you're male)

I don't think I'd care at all.Maybe I'd leave them,it depends,but I wouldn't really feel anything.

I told my girlfriend if she ever wants to experiment with other women I would be open to it as long as she told me about it, or organised it properly. She ended up doing it behind my back and I found out later down the line. It did actually hurt mabye because of the way I found out. I never left her though, she told me if I did it with a guy she would leave me.

You wanted to be there while she's experimenting,right?

My strongest feeling would probably be disgust at the moral debauchery. If I was heavily invested and had initially a good impression of the person, I might also feel a tinge of sadness. Only in very special circumstances might I be okay with it.

Kabuhi wrote:My strongest feeling would probably be disgust at the moral debauchery. If I was heavily invested and had initially a good impression of the person, I might also feel a tinge of sadness.

That's interesting.I don't have those kinds of feelings.
Cheating in general would only trigger my jealousy and feeling of not being attractive enough and that can't happen if he cheats on me with a guy because men are a completely different category.
Maybe I just think that now though,there's a possibility I'd still be jealous,but it wouldn't affect my confidence.

Bovary wrote:

Kabuhi wrote:My strongest feeling would probably be disgust at the moral debauchery. If I was heavily invested and had initially a good impression of the person, I might also feel a tinge of sadness.

That's interesting.I don't have those kinds of feelings.
Cheating in general would only trigger my jealousy and feeling of not being attractive enough and that can't happen if he cheats on me with a guy because men are a completely different category.
Maybe I just think that now though,there's a possibility I'd still be jealous,but it wouldn't affect my confidence.

Have you ever had a guy cheat on you with another guy, Bovary? Maybe you haven't been conditioned to see other men as legitimate sexual competitors. If you've never had it happen to you, perhaps you shouldn't say it would never happen to you because you never know.

Well yeah,but it wouldn't make me feel ugly or anything,I'd be jealous in a different way though,but I could just leave a guy like nothing happened.If he cheated on me with a girl,especially one that I see as prettier,it would probably traumatize me for life.

Bovary wrote:Well yeah,but it wouldn't make me feel ugly or anything,I'd be jealous in a different way though,but I could just leave a guy like nothing happened.If he cheated on me with a girl,especially one that I see as prettier,it would probably traumatize me for life.

It wouldn't bother you if he left you for a guy that's prettier? Or you do just not see that as possible because of the way you've been conditioned? I think that'd have the potential to traumatize you even more or no?

A guy can't be prettier.I'd be 100% sure that his reason for sleeping with a guy is either curiosity or homosexuality and neither has anything to do with me.If he's really gay getting angry at him would be like being angry and feeling insecure because of any gay guy not finding me attractive.

Doesn't matter who it is. It's gross. And I've fapped to scat porn, so you know that my bar on what gross is, is very low. In other words, a cheater, any cheater, is literally grosser than $#%^.