Falling...

I need advice.. before i literally go insane.
I was engaged to this guy..he was everything to me, even through all the $#%^, i still loved him..
i forgave him for everything and accepted him for who he was. I was kinda bitchy at times but i dont think i deserve whats been going on.. we agreed on a open relationship with another girl, but it seems i was only used for sex and physical self since she was in NY.. he talked so bad about me elsewhere but to my face it was different..
what do i do?..

-Ripper

How long had you been with him before the other woman became involved, and did that happen before or after you agreed to the engagement? Is the polygamy something to do with his religion or is it a more personal choice without that influence?

Had you ever spoke about open relationships with him and told him that the idea made you unhappy? I think you need to sit him down and explain how you are feeling, he may simply not be aware of how unhappy you are with the arrangement you currently have?

The most important thing here is not to get stuck Ina relationship you are unhappy in. Regardless of how much you love him he cannot just trample all over your feelings (this is assuming you have spoke to him about it, if not you must!)

I am moving this to the Relationships forum which is a better fit for it. just a reminder to keep personal issues between forum members to PMs please

Cracked