Extremly problematic date, how do I do?

Hi there. I do really apprichiate you taking time to get back to me again.
I am 25 years old, but I havent date so many girls before. Good looking but usually have girls walking all over me, since I have problems to stand up for myself.

Haha, in fact I am Swedish. The first messages I wrote in a hurry, and I usually never use a translator. But you are right about the text. Some parts make more sense than others.

I want to get away from this. Its a mess. A love addict eat your selfesteem up until you got nothing left. No friends, no aims. Nothing. It felt my whole world was about this girls. I really need to get out. Thanks a lot for the reminder!

She may not be a bad person, but ultimately she is looking out for herself. The problem as I see it is that she's solely looking out for herself, but you also need to look for yourself because no one else can do it for you. Now you're free to interpret looking out for yourself as you see fit, but the only one who's going to look out for yourself in the end is yourself.

Kabuhi wrote:She may not be a bad person, but ultimately she is looking out for herself. The problem as I see it is that she's solely looking out for herself, but you also need to look for yourself because no one else can do it for you. Now you're free to interpret looking out for yourself as you see fit, but the only one who's going to look out for yourself in the end is yourself.

That is a very true point. Thanks a lot