jealously

I am 44. But I am still a good looking woman. However, my boyfriend/fiancee, who is also good looking looks at every other woman who walks by and checks them out. He says "if I stop looking I"ll die" . When we first went out it was awful but I put up with it. Now it's less conspicuous but I know it exists and I feel so ugly around him. I feel like I cannot compete with the younger women he looks at. He dated a girl 22 years his junior when he was first separated. Am I being abused?

Hey,

His response of "if I stop looking I"ll die" makes him sound childish and arrogant. If you do not act then he will continually do this even into your marriage with him. Do not be afraid to grab hold of your life at any moment and steer it in the right direction. This is a situation that is damaging your morale - You must consider the options.


I am angered by the treatment of women by some men in this world. I am male myself and I am at times disillusioned at my fellow males' actions. They show lack of respect towards females and I will not tolerate it without a fight.


Do you need this pain? - No, so fire your 'moral-artillery' and show that you are a person who commands respect.


Take care,
Kevster

Good response. Make sure you tell him how it makes you feel when he does it around you. He should want to make you feel beautiful, not ugly.

Precisely...and that is what all women are: "Beautiful"