I can't tell if my professor is just being friendly with me or eventually wants to pursue something more. Over this semester getting to know her she has become very friendly and open with me pretty quickly. We talk a lot after class either alone or with another guy (whom she knows has a girlfriend and kid) and after a few weeks of that I went by one of her office hours just to see her. The next time we talked after class she said, specifically to me, that I should come see her every week at her office hours. I have gone to them ever since and we enjoy each other's company a lot. One of the times we talked after class with the other guy there she said that we should all go drinking and dancing together after the semester ends. Another time in conversation I mentioned that I can get people into a venue for free and she said that there was a show coming up she wants to see and I said I could get her in, so now I am going with her to a concert next month (unsure as of right now if that will just be us two or if she has other friends she will be bringing). We both smile a lot towards each other in conversation and the first class of every week after not seeing each other all weekend as she is prepping her lecture powerpoint she always takes a moment to look at me and smile. There was one week where I had to miss a class and without hesitation she said she was going to miss me. I am working hard in her class just as any other class and have straight As this semester but with all the outside social interests it doesn't seem to be just about me being a good student.
Normally I would push forward and try to find out myself if a girl is interested or not but with the certain boundaries in place until the semester is over, the suspense keeps me guessing a little. Writing it out it seems pretty clear that she probably is attracted to me but she is always pretty extroverted and social so I don't know if she is just being friendly. She is completely single and only four years older than me. I am pursuing a degree in the same field as her. I know there are a lot of intangibles that can't be described in this and I may be forgetting some details so if you have other questions that could help you guess which it is, I most likely can answer them.
So for an outgoing sociable person do these behaviors seem simply friendly or something more, or not enough information as of right now?