At what age can you get a girlfriend if you have no friends?

I am nineteen and it is currently impossible for me to get a girlfriend because at this age social activity is really important. In the study of pickup the term is called "social proof". If you are of low or no social worth it essentially means that a women would not want to associate with you, and this makes sense too. Why would a girl want to date someone that has no friends? The problem gets even worse because at my age sex and dating is only done through friends, where when people mature they seem to stop sleeping with all their friends and start fresh meeting someone new often from online.

I am wondering at what age I could actually get a girlfriend. I assume around 30+ women won't be partying every week and being surround by friends constantly. Most people mature and grow up around then right?

Women always want men with social proof. It doesn't suddenly change to off like a light switch when say they get to age 25, 30, 35, 40. A man with social proof speels to women that he has been accpeted socially by others.

I know how you feel, I had difficulty making male friends througout my mid teens to mid 20's due to bullying and people making fun of my looks and late puberty. I felt better alone. I was with a lot of #######5 people. I'm still a loner today at 35 but do talk to a few guys on my soccer team but nothing such as going out for beers with them or anything.

Women tend to view the guy with 0 friends as "a bad egg" if you want a word to put it. They see it as "well...there must be something wrong with him or he lacks social skills or is socially retarded". (which is not always the case - example you could of been bullied for your looks so decieded to spend time alone). Women seem to have no probelm making friends. Even horrible, bitchy women. Women are more social by nature, men are more competitive and tend to operate in small packs when young, critizing outsiders like yourself and me. Its vunerable to be a male loner at 19. Once your alone it seems theres no way out.

Unless your extremely handsome, women will not date the loner types. In which case they don;t become "creepy" flawed men, they are "mysterious".

All I can suggest is join clubs / sports and partake in activitites and try and make friends. Even 1 friend is a good start. At least try to show women that your are socially active and the problem is others and not you. Some women can sympathize with that.

Well part of the problem is that I don't want to have to acquire friends for the sole purpose of getting a girlfriend. It would be wasted effort and time on my part to maintain friends since I would have to talk to them and do activities. I don't enjoy other people and don't get pleasure out of activities such as going to a bar to drink alcohol and talk to friends. Stuff like that is just a waste of time for me. I have went on my entire life without friends.

The only thing I would benefit from is one friend, a girlfriend, so that I have someone to do stuff with, get emotional support, and free sex (I don't want to go my entire life only ######6 prostitutes). Once I have a girlfriend then you can see how it would be worthless for me to also have friends. I guess I could get friends so that I have the "social proof" and then once I get the girlfriend I can just ignore all the friends I used, but that just causes more problems, she may know them, wonder why I ignore them now. So the main problem with your solution is that it goes directly against the question. I am wondering how I can get a girlfriend without having friends.

I don't know, but at the very least don't apologize to women or try to justify your lack of friends to them. They aren't worth it and/or don't deserve it. You have a right to live your life anyway you want and they overstep their boundaries when they judge or criticize your lifestyle.

Honestly, this much should be obvious. After all, how disrespectful would it be for a woman to do this? Have courage, don't be timid. Be careful some, but recognize that they're physically smaller, weaker, and probably lack some of your mental strength. They have more reason to be intimidated of you than the reverse.