relationship abuse

I think.i abuse my bf verbally actuly i am. I live in a verbally abusive house which automatically makes me like this and also difficulty in anger managmnt. Me n my bf make 2 yrs in november . We LOVE eachother. But when we fight i leak some words that are offensive for example ure crazy,###$ off etc. But u NEVER offend him with his looks i know he has a weakness in a particular hllpart of his body nd never did n never will. But i want to stop these words i say bcus ive turned him like me ;( i hv improved a bit. I have bad issues with his mom we fight a lot since the first month she hated me. So when we fight i would swear about her call him son of a bitch ( She really is) but after we swear at each other we both feel sorry nd apologise and WE KNOW THAT WE LOVE EACH OTHER IT DOESNT MEAN WE DONT.

Dear ihatepd,


This sounds a lot like you have some issues inside yourself that you need to resolve. In order to love others the way you want to love them and vice versa, you have to love yourself first. Learning how to be okay with being alone and entertaining yourself will do you an incredible good because you will learn to live with an abundance attitude. You will start becoming more grateful for what you have instead of what you do not. I am not saying that you have to stay stagnant with your life, rather be happy for now and look forward to the future. If you want to be rich someday you should still reach for that goal or what ever it may be.
Also, the quality of your life is drastically effected by the people you hang out with. You should always yearn to hang out with your heroes and people who add positivity to your life. Negative ones tend to keep things negative.
As for your boyfriend, if you want to make things better between you two, that starts again with you. If you want the offensive language to stop, you have to be the one to stop it. And if you want to smooth things out with his mother, start treating her with gratitude and respect and I promise it will be returned to you.
I hope there was something in here that you could take away and help move your life toward the positive! Good luck and make sure to tell your loved ones you love them everyday!