Is he doing more damage than good?

Kabuhi
I read that as possibly being the OP's own interpretation of the situation and a projection her own insecurities. Understand that he wasn't caught sexting, propositioning for sex, or sharing lewd photos. He was caught "emotionally cheating" whatever that means in the OP's mind. Somehow this claim that he was "emotional cheating" doesn't immediately raise red flags for me. More details might be needed to do that for me..>
No insecurities here! Just weighing out some options of thought. The original poster said he left his ad in. It seems she also thought since he did not cancel the ad after he met her could mean he was still looking. No need to analyze me. I am not the one with the problem. I am happily married. Just weighing in like everyone else.

Kabuhi wrote:Marriage is a heavy commitment, Ashlar.

Nonsense. One of my uncles has been married 8 times, and I can assure you he's never committed to anything in his life.

Kabuhi wrote ; I read that as possibly being the OP's own interpretation of the situation and a projection her own insecurities. Understand that he wasn't caught sexting, propositioning for sex, or sharing lewd photos. He was caught "emotionally cheating" whatever that means in the OP's mind. Somehow this claim that he was "emotional cheating" doesn't immediately raise red flags for me. More details might be needed to do that for me.

Sorry, I misinterpreted your post . My bad. I thought you meant my insecurity.