My low sex drive is affecting my relationship - HELP!

Distant Angel wrote:Dear ScienceAndCake,

I think you might have a case of the "we want what we can't have's". Because you are gettting sex all the time from your boyfriend at anytime you want is probably why you are getting bored.
You don't need to go into specifics, but the type of sex you are getting probably isn't exciting anymore I bet. Just in the bedroom I would guess? After a while, with anything we do in life, doing the same thing the same way just gets boring. If I could suggest, try talking about this with your boyfriend and ask him what he thinks. Maybe you need to try something a little more adventurous?
I think if you talk with him about how you are feeling and make the suggestion of trying out new things, your spark for him will hopefully be re-energized!

ScienceAndCake wrote:

Distant Angel wrote:Dear ScienceAndCake,

I think you might have a case of the "we want what we can't have's". Because you are gettting sex all the time from your boyfriend at anytime you want is probably why you are getting bored.
You don't need to go into specifics, but the type of sex you are getting probably isn't exciting anymore I bet. Just in the bedroom I would guess? After a while, with anything we do in life, doing the same thing the same way just gets boring. If I could suggest, try talking about this with your boyfriend and ask him what he thinks. Maybe you need to try something a little more adventurous?
I think if you talk with him about how you are feeling and make the suggestion of trying out new things, your spark for him will hopefully be re-energized!

Swing and a miss on every single point.

Including my gender, hilariously.