Tough Life

I don't know where to begin but i feel like my life sucks balls, It's very hard for me to keep a relationship if i do get involved in a relationship it usually last 3-6 months they lost interest in me cause i don't "Socialize" much i don't talk much.. I am always afraid of doing anything, i am shy of walking up to random person and introduce myself, i never ask for help when i needed it. I daydream a lot,,

If you live in the US, Canada, or other 1st world nation your life is incredibly blessed and any problems you think you have is all on you. You're not in some 3rd world hellhole where you walk miles every day just for water out of a filthy ditch. So instead of bitching and moaning no one wants to be with you look at the rest of the world once in a while and realize your supposed problems are of your own making.

Not to be insensitive, but is that it?

I understand that it can be rough to be told over and over again by men or women that you're boring and inadequate as a person and I can see how that may make you cynical. At the same time, your social competency can't be that bad if you're even able to have 3-6 months relationships with men or women. Some people can't even get a woman or man to look at them as a serious potential romantic partner, much less have a 3-6 month relationship. Usually they're either not attractive enough (nerds, morbidly obese, disfigured), lack the charisma necessary (no income, autistic, shy), or some combination of the two. There are worse problems out there than not being to keep a lover for more than half a year.

EDIT: If dating is making you miserable, maybe the solution is to stay out of dating scene for a while and focus on other endeavors that make you happy and feel accomplished. Focus on other goals or missions and try it again later if you're interested or if someone catches your fancy. If you're lucky, maybe you'll return refreshed with renewed confidence and a deeper perspective. Maybe you'll decide dating is a waste of time and never return at all (I mean that's okay as well if that's the conclusion you arrive to).

I am so sorry guys my psychiatrist prescribed me wellbutrin for my depression and it was my first time taking it ... It kicked in real hard where my mind just whet Now that the med is out of my system i came to the point and read my topic did i really got all emotional and sound like a b*tch really that aint me cause i love my life and the peoples in it call me weird but whatever i am sorry again for b*tching i am Neeevvveeerrr taking Wellbutrin again specially 400mg ... I hope you all have a wonderful memoriable day god bless and be safe...

flaguy88 wrote:I am so sorry guys my psychiatrist prescribed me wellbutrin for my depression and it was my first time taking it ... It kicked in real hard where my mind just whet Now that the med is out of my system i came to the point and read my topic did i really got all emotional and sound like a b*tch really that aint me cause i love my life and the peoples in it call me weird but whatever i am sorry again for b*tching i am Neeevvveeerrr taking Wellbutrin again specially 400mg ... I hope you all have a wonderful memoriable day god bless and be safe...

Okay, apology accepted for getting emotional like a bitch and god bless to you as well.

Pleeeassee...you are fine. I assume you are reltively young.

You seem to be able to attract people, but not keep them. This usually has to do with personal substance. Take some time for intraspecion, reflection. Once, you find yourself, know who you are and are happy with that, you should have no worries.