i am not in love with him. help me

I need some help. I am not a wordy person so let me just get to the point. I have been married for 5 years and my husband and i have a 3 year old. The problem is I am not in love with him anymore andd i have been feeling this way for at least two years. I feel ilke we are just friends. I told this to him recently and after fighting and all he said he thinks that my feelings will change for the better. we started counselling and I am just thinking i hope something happens to prove him right. I really don't know how much longer i can be in this marriage feeling the way I do. I am not seeing anyone else nad have never strayed outside the marriage but i want to be in love. I don't want to break my family up but i also do not want to spend the rest of my life feeling the way i do for someone i am married to. I am 26 years old.

Maybe you should just have a break, go on holiday with a friend. Once you've been away from him for a while...things could have changed. i see two sides to this...ok so you not in love. it would break him if you ended it, right? you have a child of 3 years old. would you want it to end up complicated for your child in the future?? things could go down hill from then on..

..but if your not in love and you feel your friends..HEY! why would you want to be with him..if your looking for love? you also..only 26 !

hmmm..i say have a chat to him about it..be calm..and break it to him and see what he says again. i have a friend who doesnt love her husband anymore and he doesnt lover her..they have been together and still are for 20 years. yet theyve only stayed together for the kids. i know it would tear there worlds apart there parents not being together, bad enough as it is them constantly arguing.

It's not easy to be with someone we aren't feel in love. But don't break with him for the sake of your kids. Don't be selfish. Kids needs complete family. So, try to test yourself if you aren't in love with your husband anymore. Try to take vacation with your kids that is away from your husband, and see what goes on.