Hi,
I'm almost twenty and unfortunately painfully shy and have problems with esteem. But there is a guy I like (I know- it might only be an infatuation, but I want to find out what I feel for him...and if he feels anything) but because both of us are two shy, we end up running away from each other. I'm afraid of rejection or of getting hurt, but the thing is I'm too shy. I can't even look at him in the eyes....so he has completely stopped 'hanging around' me and I think he thinks I don't like him. This guy is just a university classmate and this year we have not talked ONE bit. Thing is he is graduation this year and I am upset at the thought of not seeing him again. My question is: would it be weird if I ask him to come into a room and just kiss him? Especially because we do not really know each other?? Would he think I'm crazy? First of all, I'm trembling at the thought of kissing him, but is it ok for girls to make a first move?
thanks