should i stay or should i go

We've been together for 6 years and things have been great. We moved abroad and worked and traveled together for 2 years. Things were stressful at first, but it was a great growing experience. We talked about where to live when we got home. He was stressed about getting a job, then was offered a job elsewhere and pretty much just left.

I'm having a hard time forgiving him and don't know that I want to be where he is. I having a hard time deciding where to be. I'll have to move somewhere where I don't know anyone but him, and he's already set up his life. I feel like I've been left behind. He tells me he loves me and wants me to be with him (he thought I was ready to move where ever he got a job). I'm not sure that I'm ready to give up on us, but I just don't know that I can be happy in this new place. I know I'll always be thinking about leaving and who knows how long he'll want to stay.

WHAT DO I DO?????

I don't understand. You're angry because he took a job somewhere without discussing it with you? You're worried that you won't like this new place? Is your geographic location on the map that important, that you would let go of the man you love?

I would move out there and fight with him about it for about six months. I would fully express my feelings in the sort of emotion-laden conversations that men love. I would tell him how abandoned and betrayed I felt. How difficult it was to follow him. And then, I'd let him console me...

Think of the fun you could be having right now!