don't judge.

um, i kissed a married guy a while back and saw him the other day and he would like it if something more happened between us. im not going to allow anything more to happen between us but i have developed some feelings for him and it's killing me to say no. does anyone have any idea how to overcome this?

thanks to anyone who tries to help

sweety, its better to let the sleeping dog lie.he is a married guy like you said,if you allow any feelings for him to grow,u would end up being hurt or hurting someone else deeply.try as much as possible not to encourage that with him,find you a single and focused guy who will be yours for keeps not someone elses man.take care of you.you'll be fine

but i have developed some feelings for him and it's killing me to say no. does anyone have any idea how to overcome this?

Splodge,

If it were up to me, I'd avoid him at all costs. Knowing that my feelings would augment in time for him, it would be best to not see him around.

It might be unwise and also harsh to detach away from him if he is a very good mate but given your speculation, however, it might be better to stay away from him and retain a sense of morality - in case a relationship does arise.

Best of luck!

infekt

cheers for your replies guys i spoke to him and he assures me it wont happen again...made me feel better again, thanks