The boring thruth

Do you know what really annoys me?

When i go into a relationship i expect too much.

That expectation makes me fantasize about how wonderful that person is, but then when i look back after wards i see that i made up 80% of it!

Sure the person might be nice, friendly. But i came to discover that when i see something empathetic i dive in, that one little thing makes me express myself too loud.

Then i get annoyed because i realized that i wanted so badly this to work that i made some of it up.

I know that people give each other expectations all the time, but then the other person might feel a bit over whelmed?

People keep talking about the silver lining, the middle road.

I hate to criticise myself but sometimes i actually have no choice but to be realistic, even thou realism is "boring".