Why do people who havent been raped come to forums such as

by **flipper-lovesmusic** » Tue Dec 23, 2008 9:10 pm

i dont understand what case of trolling means

Chucky wrote:What was the purpose of this thread, MizzCatharine? Are you genuinely curious about the answers to the questions you are asking?; or are you just trying to create bad blood between members here?

This is an open forum and you should therefore expect responses from every type of person. This conversation could easily have been continued in the previous thread that you started, but you have chosen not to do that.

When all is said and done, I believe that you have slightly misinterpreted what sonovlaurin said in the previous thread. For the record too, anyone who blames the rape victim for being raped is either lying or is trying to just annoy people like you. Perhaps they have succeeded in the latter.

Take care,
Kevin

Sorry bout the hostility..I guess its a way of dealing with it for me. gives me a sense of power. its like..either be hurt & sad or be pissed...you might be right about some people trying to annoy people like me..but I have no regret for telling them where to stick it..absolute sickos. they dont *succeed* ...if anything...they give me an opputurnity to vent

i am quite suspicious of anyone that says its the rape vics fault..on a rape board at that. what can i say?

merry giftmas and happy new year

by **scarred_cutter** » Wed Dec 24, 2008 7:39 pm

flipper-lovesmusic wrote:
scarred_cutter wrote:Would it perhaps be a bit harsh/judgemental to suggest that this could be a case of trolling?

this is what u said, i didnt understand this message.

i meant that maybe mizzC was bringing up contraversial topics in order to stir up a response (trolling)

i see her explanation now though and apologize, sorry mizzC!
xxx

by **Chucky** » Wed Dec 24, 2008 9:00 pm

MizzCatharine wrote:Sorry bout the hostility..I guess its a way of dealing with it for me. gives me a sense of power. its like..either be hurt & sad or be pissed...you might be right about some people trying to annoy people like me..but I have no regret for telling them where to stick it..absolute sickos. they dont *succeed* ...if anything...they give me an opputurnity to vent
i am quite suspicious of anyone that says its the rape vics fault..on a rape board at that. what can i say?

I must commend you for standing-up for yourself, because this constitutes much of the advice that I give on this website (i.e. - standing-up for one's self). I usually find that just walking away from an argument is best though, especially on Internet forums because some arguments can be never-ending. Therefore, I save myself time by just leaving.

Merry/happy Christmas to you too. It's just 3 hours until December 25th here in Ireland but I keep forgetting that it's Christmas-time here. I guess that's what years of depression does to a person... ...?

by **me1** » Sun Feb 22, 2009 8:43 pm

I am not a rape survivor but a mother of a teen that has been raped and coming to this forum has helped me to help my daughter cope better. She sees a counselor but this site has helped me to better understand her emotions . I sometimes even cry with her on the worst days. On top of ptsd, she has been diagnosed recently with major depressive disorder. I would like to thank each and everyone of you that has given me advice when needed and God bless you all.

by **r2rr** » Sat Jan 23, 2010 12:20 pm

I haven’t been a victim of terrorism, yet I read about terrorism. I haven’t played international tennis, yet I like to watch it. I haven’t been to China, yet I read about the Great Wall. It is called education.

by **Peanutbutter** » Fri Apr 16, 2010 5:22 am

I came to this forum because my girlfriend was raped. I'm looking for help...

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