Has anyone else here attempted suicide after the assault?

That guy didn't need to find out that you didn't want to have sex, he needed to find out that you did. You don't assume that any one who spends time with a friend wants to have sex with them, that's nuts.

I totally agree. I think sono said something like if a guy is alone with a girl, what else could he want? Geez..that makes men sound like animals. I thought we were people.

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Well, even if men were that way, it'd still be their responsibility to know what women are like too.

hey hey people! sorry that i've been so scarce lately, no one offended me so please don't think that! i've just been doing exams in school and so i haven't had the opportunity to get on

well to reply really late, i am sooo delayed you guys prob. don't even remember the conversation anymore!! anyways, about the private situation thing...

it depends what you would call a private situation. maybe just because i'm young and naieve, but like, when it happened to me...the first guy, we were shopping together in a busy mall, just friends having a shopping trip and he followed me into the stall when i was changing into something.

the other guy, he had a girlfriend and he'd always treated me as a sister. we both were at the same holiday place and he invited me to go on a walk with him and we were just chatting, his girlfriend even phoned him and everything...

then the third guy, i went to his house for dinner and i brought over a DVD and after supper we watched it, his parents went upstairs to sleep and...well you get the point...i'd been alone with him in his bedroom before, playing playstation and nothing had ever happened, so i'm not sure what you mean by asking what else he would want if we were in private?

i've just never really thought of going into a room alone with a guy being him wanting something from me, seeing as i've often been in rooms with guy friends and nothing's happened

ok...changed my tactics?? i don't really get the question lol sorry my brain is kinda squeezed out after the exam today!!

toodles for now

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thanks jasmin

all i can say is wow!!!!...i think as women we have to be able to say what we want and dont want and that be respected...either way...as human beings period we should have a mutual respect for one another...

I have started to multiple times when i was younger. The thought still crosses my mind quite often but I have promises to keep and that gives me a reason to keep going.