My story

Hello I am new to this and have never posted to a forum before. y name is Kimber and I am 20 years old. I was molested and abused by 3 different men from age 10 to 17. I am in conceling now and was told to share my story with others, Im not comfortable talking about it to people I know so I wanted to try sharing it with you. I grew up in a small country town in Kentucky. My closest neighbor was 3 miles away. It started when I was 10 and mom married this man he moved in with us and thats when it started. My new stepdad would look for any reason at all to spank me which was always done with my pants and panties removed. This happend almost every other day for untill I was 12 then It got worse. He started doing anal to me after every spanking. When I was 13 his uncle moved in with us and he would do it to when I was 15 it was happening every day sometimes 3 or 4 times a day. I had told my mom many times and she said it was normal. I later found out her dad done it to her. The uncle and his friend started making me sleep in his room in the bed between them and they would do it every night for hours. When I was 17 I got arested for theft and sent to juvie where I told what happend to me. They were arested but found not guilty when it went to court. I know it has messed me up sexually I am tring to work through it now and hope to hear from you all.

Hi, Kimber! Welcome to the forum. Those men had no right to hurt you like that. It is not your fault and your mother should have protected you. None of it was normal or right. Many people who have been abused have problems when it comes to sexuality.
I hope your counsellor can help and you can talk here with us any time.

Welcome to Psychforums Kimber.

It's good to start to tell your story.
I know that it is hard to share your story with those you know, I still haven't fully done that.

I started to be abused at 16 through my ex, which was mental, emotional, verbal, sexual and physical. From 16-21 I dealt with numerous sexual assaults, and sexual harassment, as well as rape, threats of rape and corecion.

I've healed mostly now, even though there are moments where I struggle. I deal with survivors daily now, it helps me with my healing process. It's good to get out your story, hang in there and if you need to talk i'm here.