I just need to write it down.

This guy's lost it! He's being stupid and cruel, countrychickny. I'm sorry he's doing this to you. Maybe you can find a way to stay somewhere else for a little while. You should tell the police if he keeps harassing you.

I give up.... I want to get him on tape threatening me so i can get a restraining order. He threatened me, but it was over the phone and it wassnt recorded so i have no proof. Im so sick of men. I wish I could find someone who actually gave a damn about me.

Get a tape recorder and try to do it next time he tries to contact you, if it's ok. You shouldn't have to put up with his $#%^ and you don't deserve this.

If he has threatened you with violence etc, you can report him to the police and get a restraining order. The cops can also call and give him a warning, which may be enough to make him stop.

Don't keep it to yourself, tell others. He's trying to gain control over you, and if you tell others of his threats he loses that control.

countrychickny wrote:1 I give up.... I want to get him on tape threatening me so i can get a restraining order. He threatened me, but it was over the phone and it wassnt recorded so i have no proof. 2 Im so sick of men. I wish I could find someone who actually gave a damn about me.

1) Never, EVER give up.... you would just let him win. You are stronger than that.

2) It is understandable that you feel like that just now.... but there ARE men that will "Give a damn". I am head over heels with a lady that went through abuse most of her life, sexual, physical and verbal..... someday soon, I hope to make her life much brighter.

Know that we all are here to support you in any way we can but you have to help yourself ultimately.

ok , hes officially gone to far. He is tellin people I gave him some VD. Which is complete bull!!! Does anyone know how I go about getting a restraining order? Do I have to have proof he has threatened me? He has but I have no proof. And he hasnt hit me , but I know if I was alone with him he would... I need help, Im at the end of my rope over here. I know this is straying from the topic of the forum but I have no one to turn to and Im loosing it....

Maybe if you told the police, if you just called them, they'd give you some information. This guy is crazy.

Things are lookin up. Im over this prick. I still think about what happened alot, but I wont let this guy make me feel like its my fault anymore! Its not. And hes lower then low for making me think that, and making me think it would be a good idea to kill myself. I went to his apartment and threw a few punches, probebly not my best idea, but I feel better and Im not getting sucked into anymore of his lies.

The dreams are back, but Im learning to deal.

Thanks everyone.

Good for you! You see, all you needed was to look out for "number one." Now you are taking initiative in protecting you and investing in you. This is a huge step in self-reliance and respect, not to mention, security.