Grateful

Greetings!
Really grateful to have found this community. Been reading through the various threads and learning a lot.
Like others, I am trying to discern where I am at re: sexual addiction.
Most of my life/relationships has been plagued by my co-dependency (looking for emotional love) but now that I am healthy in that regard, I'm finding my strong sex drive is creating problems in my new relationship.
I am fortunate that the thought of infidelity is kept in check and I have been completely away from porn from at least a year.
However, my drive is driving my partner away.
Primarily because I get so excited about being together that when she isn't feeling it, I get frustrated. By itself that isn't cool, but her previous marriage was with a bully who was frequently pressuring her.
I really want to learn how to control my reactions/drive so that I can be better about it, and will keep listening to others here on how they cope.
Thanks for being here