He won't stop ruining my clothes

Desperately need help. I live with a man I've known for 7 years. We get along sometimes, but most of the times not. He's not very nice to meet. I don't know why I stay there other than I'm comfortable where I am. I'm working on a way out. But I really really need some advice here. Nobody believes me. But he is destroying my clothes. I love clothes and I have a lot of them. Or at least I had a lot of them. He denies putting holes in them and taking the hems out. I react. I react big time because I'm so frustrated and because it's just not fair, I didn't do anything wrong to deserve this. I lock my clothes away. But when I forget to lock it he takes the opportunity every single time and does it again. How can somebody be so cruel? I'm such a nice person and he's always accusing me things I'm not doing wrong. I have destroyed some of his clothes. I know it is him there's no way it could be anybody else, but now it's about how I destroyed his clothes but some ghost is coming in and destroying mine. Please tell me how to make him stop. Please I just want to pull my hair up and he's ruining my life