Rape induced PTSD - Help please help

Great Idea

I know it's tough 4 u, but my love will help you, where our relationship was going wasn't gonna help either of us. I'll be up in a few days 2 drop off some stuff if u can handle it i would really enjoy seeing u as a freind, I will understand if u dont want 2. Casey, its not ur fault, dont be a victim, and remember that time heals all wounds, and, u still make me proud

I couldn't do it, I was so scared, I texted her that at 3:43 am.

ddeehopes wrote:Great Idea

could you elaborate. sorry, I really need help helping, her and myself, I need as many thoughts, opinions, and knowledge as I can get. thanks

oops sorry bout that, i was just letting you know that showing her your posts could help. It could set her off too tho. but I doubt it. just expect it, that way you aren't let down.

She needs to know how you feel. I have to say this: so many men don't communicate.

So to sum it up Good idea, print out your pages and let her know how you feel, and she willl hopefully understand that you love her but you are scared.

I don't mean to butt in, I just want you two to understand eachother. Let her talk too. okay?

kevingood wrote:I know it's tough 4 u, but my love will help you, where our relationship was going wasn't gonna help either of us. I'll be up in a few days 2 drop off some stuff if u can handle it i would really enjoy seeing u as a freind, I will understand if u dont want 2. Casey, its not ur fault, dont be a victim, and remember that time heals all wounds, and, u still make me proud

I couldn't do it, I was so scared, I texted her that at 3:43 am.

Youch!!

I think now you should let her go. You are too wishy washy with your own feelings and can't grasp hers. She will be fine. I found someone to understand and so will she. But mine thinks of me first.

Rape isn't our fault. And the ptsd that come with it is hurts so bad. my boyfriend blamed me and walked. ###$ him. I needed him.
He treated me like tainted goods. I was the victim not him.

Personally I think he blamed himself for not being there to protect me while he was out drinking with the boys on superbowl. Hope he had a good time. I even called him when I ran to payphone, he erased my message. jerk. I was screaming for help. Then ran in the store and they clerk called the police.