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Re: RAPE N PSTD PLEASE HELP

Postby jjoeyj85 » Sat Jun 20, 2009 10:02 pm

and thats the truth!! tuffen up people, this world isnt made for soft people who break at what life thros them. u need a darn back bone.. i say this for all of ur own good.
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Re: RAPE N PSTD PLEASE HELP

Postby Chucky » Sat Jun 20, 2009 11:04 pm

Whilst your idea of 'toughening up' is nice and positive, the way that you are trying to get this message/idea across is wrong. Plus you have to consider the following: If a person leaves another merely because they were raped in the past, then the two people are not right for each other. You can stay in your 'toughening up' world if you like, jjoeyj85, but we will continue to live in our supportive, sincere world. Please don't criticise us or try to impose your ideas onto us if we are upset by it, okay? That's just like a person with a given religious view trying to impose it onto others who don't subscribe to that view.
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Re: RAPE N PSTD PLEASE HELP

Postby jjoeyj85 » Sun Jun 21, 2009 3:59 am

oh boo hoooo bo hooohooohooo cry a river! i was not answeing anything you asked the public i was answering pokiedokies question! which was asked to who? the public and that would be the best thing for her, and other rape victims, tell the cops, not lovers/friends! an d i am not forcing anything on you. i am giving a criticisve needed oppioion. so you and dokiepokiw and just shuch.. and dokie your welcome in the most bluntest way!! see i would have shut up and left it at my first answer but someppl just keep it going an d goin. oh and also yer a single mother, which means----------- it couldnt have botherd to to the fullest exten you have a kid so ur were able to have sex. here is a song for you to listen to. google these lyrics and listen to the song by David Allen Coe - My wife ran off with a ****** its a wonderful song.
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Re: RAPE N PSTD PLEASE HELP

Postby jjoeyj85 » Sun Jun 21, 2009 4:05 am

ps. just the part right after -- as far as I can figure ----- till second verse starts up again.. 1 sentence
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Re: RAPE N PSTD PLEASE HELP

Postby okiedokie » Sun Jun 21, 2009 4:46 am

Hi Joey, I just want you to know that I am not mad at you. I just read some of your other posts, I am actually sorry for you. I think you have all the right to feel angry after what you went through. I had a good friend whos husband was in Iraq, al tho he died there. The first time he came back he had that blank 10,000 mile stare, you can see how mentally draining it was for him, as I am sure it was for you too. I dont agree with how your letting your anger out though. I know on my behalf I shouldnt have asked the public. I know that there are people who say things to be nice, that is what I was looking for actually. I know pathetic, you dont have to rub that in my face. I know you probably will say something nasty regarding this, but have a consideration that you are a stronger being then I. I'm sure that you probably handle stuff alot better then I ever will. It just mentally broke me thinking that I am going to be dying soon on such a terrible disease, the way he explained it was just terrifying. I am also sensitive to the fact that I am sure there were times while you was over there, that you though you'd not make it back, and faced the same damn death thought.(Difference being you was not thinking about dying on a disease someone gave you, yours would be more like getting taking a bullet) I am sorry though. I'm also sorry that you cant understand. I didnt want to be raped. That song was terrible thanks for telling me that "I'm worthless" I shouldnt have read them lyrics. I should've stopped after the first sentence. I hope that you understand that I didnt ask him to do that. I hope you know that it isnt fair to mentally hurt those who arent as strong minded and strong willed as you. I just cant handle stuff like this well. But thanks so much for making me feel twice as worthless with you song. I was not even a virgin with he raped me, noooo my damn dad took that away. He didnt even go to jail, a lot of court trials and he dont get no jail. So that was not the first time, I WAS RAPED JERK. It also was not the first time that I was raped by a black man, cause my fathers friend was black man. Well, I will just say that whenever my dad needed his drug supply, he got it free. I should just be a lesbian. But I dont want a woman, I want a man, a man who I will feel safe with. I just dont think that I will find one. But please dont be so hateful and hurtful to women that were hurt like that.
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Re: RAPE N PSTD PLEASE HELP

Postby jjoeyj85 » Sun Jun 21, 2009 7:51 pm

like i said nasty.. also im not asking for ur damn sympothy dont need none, neither do u grow a back bone!!!!!!! bye
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Re: RAPE N PSTD PLEASE HELP

Postby Chucky » Sun Jun 21, 2009 8:42 pm

jjoeyj85, if you are not looking for sympathy, then why have you created other threads looking for it? I know that you're in a tough position right now in your life - and that things aren't going your way - but being abrasive won't really help. Just be calm dude... things will get better.
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Re: RAPE N PSTD PLEASE HELP

Postby okiedokie » Mon Jun 22, 2009 1:15 am

I'm sorry guys, I didnt plan on someone actually being this hateful when I posted. :roll:
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Re: RAPE N PSTD PLEASE HELP

Postby Chucky » Mon Jun 22, 2009 7:31 pm

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