RAPE N PSTD PLEASE HELP

okiedokie wrote:I dont know. I have a job. I have a daughter. I would like to be able to go out in public with out feeling shamed. I would also like a relationship. and I have one my daughters father, he was an a$$ and he wouldnt want to have protected. " well you know" and I did, and well protection broke and I kinda lost it and told him why I was so paranoid and he left me. Then I found out I was pregnanat. I can say with no hessatation I love my daughter, I dont know what else I want to do now though. I dont know.. sorry

Please have a tink about it over the next few days. Your life doesn't have to run its course in the way that it is now. There is still plenty for you to achieve.

Well a massive multilayer online role playing game is a game where millions (or thousands or hundreds of thousands for the smaller games) play online together in a virtual world. Different games have different settings and themes. They have close communities, actual economies, people of literally all ages (most people playing are between the ages of 20-45 but all ages from 13 and up play), and other cool stuff. You get to make close friends with people who never need to know your real name. There is absolutely no way for them to find out who you are or where your from unless you tell them so its easy to make friends and trust people..

There are a bunch of different types but Final Fantasy XI is probably the best option for someone past 20 because its mostly adults and is a more mature game. There is a free trial at http://finalfantasyxi.com/ if you want to check it out.. Give it a try youll like it.

There is really no game like final fantasy XI but if you wanted to check out other massive multiplayer games as well (if your interested), there are a bunch.

World of Warcraft: More aimed at pre teens and teenagers but has the pro of being very easy. im not sure if you would like this but there is free trial as well: https://signup.worldofwarcraft.com/tria ... blade25_01 : or http://www.worldofwarcraft.com/index.xml

Aion: I have never played this one nor do i know anyone who has since its new: http://us.ncsoft.com/en/aion/

There are more as well, just search 'top mmorpg' in google and your sure to find some good ones.

Ok. thanks, to the both of you.

no problem good luck with everything. I hope you get through it.

Yea,,,, trying.

okiedokie wrote:Yea,,,, trying.

If one thing does not work, try something else.
You deserve so much more, I played Morrowind,and morrowwind Elder Scrolls for years.
Chucky is right, everyone has different suggestions, but we all are just trying
to help you feel better, no shame and stand on your own two feet.
Just keep talking about it if you want. Sometimes that is what it takes.

peace.
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well im sorry to hear that. altho i wouldnt be able to date someone if i knew that about them, i feel that that is kind of dirty, i am not calling u dirty, im calling the act its self dirty. and to be with someone who had that happen to them. no not at all. its not clean is all i will say about that. um also your a single mom. i dont like kids. or woman who been rape... cause rape = to much drama.. ladies its not your fault tho.

but yah okiedokie when u get to dating someone again, dont bring that up is my advice, keeping that to ur self might just be the best idea. im not trying to be hurtful. but alot of white men would get grossed out just be the fact you were raped by a black man. yah no? and then the whole aids thing, it would sicken them, so my nicest advice keep it to your self.

Wow, first off I don't mind to be a single mom. I also aint trying to cause drama. Thanks for being totally rude in the most blunt way.

That person' response does not reresent the mass population here, as I'm sure you have noticed. In fact, you should of course mention this to any future partner that you have (I know that you are happy being single though). If a person leaves you because of your past, then that person doesn't deserve to be in your future. Simpy close these people out of your mind and be strong and confidant, which I know that you will be for the rest of your life. You're a wonderful person, okiedokie, and you will continue to forever be.

>>>>>>>That person' response does not reresent the mass population here, as I'm sure you have noticed. In fact, you should of course mention this to any future partner that you have (I know that you are happy being single though). If a person leaves you because of your past, then that person doesn't deserve to be in your future. Simpy close these people out of your mind and be strong and confidant, which I know that you will be for the rest of your life. You're a wonderful person, okiedokie, and you will continue to forever be.<<<<<<<

myne response counts as much as everyone elses on here yur prolly some whiped man anyway lol ... and no she shouldnt.. shouldnt tell no one OFCOURSE NOT!!!!
"picture this" we was dating and u liked me a whole lot, very much, and u told me that and i would have left u wouldnt u regret telling me then. and that would make u all depressed again..... so shut ur mouth about it and tell no one.. dont listen to people who are sorry for everyone, they only say things to make u feel better, when sometiems you need the bloody damn turth!