rape

Last night I told my husband no; he got mad of course and I fell asleep. The next thing I know my pants are off and he is perceeding to have sex with me. i feel really violated and it has brought alot of past feelings forrward. I have told him that it is unacceptable to do this bt he did it anyway. I reallt feel like hurting myself; and i know it won't help to confront him. how do i make these feelings of being violated go away. he is my husband.
Enola

I'm so sorry honey.
You are not at fault, he should have listened to you, and accepted your decsion.

What did he say when you confronted him?

i'm so sorry.

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you don't have to confront him if you don't want to. or if you are just scared. talk to someone else close to you about it. maybe you shouldn't be staying with him right now. do you have anywhere else to go?

::hugs::

erin

(((((Enola)))))

I am so sorry. Yes, he is your husband, but still does not have the right to take something unless it is offered. To not be able to trust the one closest to you must be very painful. I agree with Erin, that maybe you could take some time away from him. It could give you some time to sort things out and he may realize the seriousness of his actions.

cJo

I don't dare confront my husband it will just make things worse. As for leaving him; I have no place to go. I am going on vacation for a week without him and maybe I can sort some stuff out in my head. Thank you for all your ideas and suggestions.
Enola

I BEN READING YOUR STUFF AND OTHERS PEOPLES FOR THE PAST MONTH AND I FIND OUT I LIVE BUY YOU IM IN OREM SO I REGISTURD ON THIS SITE HERE . ILL GO CONFRONT YOUR HUSBAND FOR YOU TONIGHT AND IM SHURE HE WONT DO THAT ANY MORE TO YOU! I FOUND YOUR NUMBER FROM YOUR EMAIL AND I HAVE ALREADY CALLED HIM ON THE PHONE AND HE IS REALLY COCKY I TOLD HIM I WAS 6FT AND 240LB AND HE SAID BRING IT ON SO IM GOING TO STOP BY AND GIVRE HIM A LITTLE SURPRISE VISIT I HOPES THIS HELP YOU AND IF YOU NEED A PLACE TO STAY I WIL HELP TO.I POST LATER AND TELL EVRY ONE WHAT HE SAID ALL YOU HAVE AGOOD NIGHT TALK LATRE
-MIKE

enolarovivrus wrote::( I don't dare confront my husband it will just make things worse. As for leaving him; I have no place to go. I am going on vacation for a week without him and maybe I can sort some stuff out in my head. Thank you for all your ideas and suggestions.
Enola

I WENT OVER AND KNOCKED ON THE DOOR THIS SKINNY LITTLE $#%^ WITH POPEYE LOOKEN FORARMS OPENS UP THE DOOR I SAID IM HERE TO CONFRONT YOU AND GRABED HIM BYE THE KNECK AND HIT HIM IN THE STOMCH THE NECSKED THING I KNIW I WAS FLIPPED OVER ON MY BACK ONTOP OF A CHAIR THAT GOT BROKE WITH MY BACK AND SOME COMPUTER THING IT FELT LIKE 3 PEOPLE WAS KICKING THE CRAP OUT OF ME HE WAS HITTING SO HARD AND FAST I COULDNT MOVE BUT IT WAS JUST THIS SKINNY LITTLE $#%^ DOING IT I LOST 2 TEETH I KIKED HIM OFF AND HE HIT ME ANAGIN I RAN TO MY CAR WHICH I CEPT RUNNING BECUASE I THOUGHT THIS WAS GOING TO BE EAASY AND FAST AT LEST I KICKED HIS MUSTANG ON THE WAY OUT BUT THEN HE BUSTED MY WINDSHELD WITH A BIG ROCK.HOW DID A MAYBE 140 POUND 5-8 FOOT GUY WOOP ME LIKE THAT IT WAS LIKE MIKE TYOSON BOXED ME.I WILL NEVER DO THAT AGAIN OR BE BACK ON THIS WEB SITE AND SORY FOR THE BROKEN STUFF AND A PLANT I KNOCKED OVER I GOT WHAT I DESIEVRED SORY ENLONA

Oh please....

ddeehopes wrote:Oh please....

I was wondering about that myself.

I think it's best that I lock this for tonight anyways, I think we need to see if this is something to be taken seriously or not.