I had pinched nerves in my lower back from spinal alignment and cartilage deterioration issues. My legs would tingle and fall asleep. Whenever I had to walk some distance, I would look ahead for someplace to sit down if I had to. I would begin puffing and panting for breath. When I went shopping, I would find a cart in the parking lot to use as a walker.
I was becoming incontinent while walking. I was in my mid-50's and felt that I was too young to be so old so soon!
I tried a chiropractor first. It felt good for about 20 minutes after the appointment, then the tingling and limping would return. My hips were in agony. I thought that the problem was in my hips and not my back.
I was given a back brace to wear, TENS unit for electric shock, high doses of anti-inflammatory meds which burned my stomach, steroid shots which did nothing and physical therapy. The exercise made the inflammation worse.
After a few months of nothing really helping, I was beginning to get upset. My boss saw me stumble sideways at work which was not good. Sitting did not really bring relief. Laying down did.
They made an appointment for me with a neurologist. He heard me out and said, 'I think I can help you'. I almost cried. I said 'When?'
Surgery was the ultimate answer. The insurance company had to try everything else first, but I think that we all knew that I needed surgery early on. Insurance companies don't like to pay out and was hoping that something cheaper would work or I would give up trying to get help.
The neurologist made room for the nerves where they exited the spine. The vertebrae was collapsing and pinching the nerves. They really can't fix a crooked back, but they got the pressure off the nerves.
That morning in the recovery room, I felt my toes like I had not felt them in over a year. I wiggled them to test everything and knew then that it was fixed.
This was 8 years ago and the doctor said that it may not be a permanent fix, but if we have to address it again in the future, that is fine by me. So far, so good.
Don't give up asking for what you need. When they ask you to rate your pain on a scale of 1 to 10, give it a 9.
Near constant pain can really take the joy out of life and make us feel old. We can't concentrate or perform tasks that we used to take for granted. It always distracts us and can sour our mood.
Ever since then, I watch how other people walk.
Best of luck to you.