by Nyyx » Tue Nov 22, 2016 10:31 pm
I am sorry that you have found yourself here. The first thing I am going to say is the escalation is already beginning. Once the boundary has been crossed and you lay your hands on someone in anger, it becomes easier and easier. I have been on both sides, abused and abuser and it nearly always starts like this.
The second thing I am going to say is stop drinking together, period. No ifs no buts no maybe's. If you are lucky this may resolve the issue, until you can find some way to get help.
If this happens when you are both sober, then you need to seperate and continue to work on things without living together.
Ask yourself if your willing to put him in prison. Or yourself in the hospital, because if this isn't nipped in the bud now, that's where things will end up.
For every act that goes unpunished he will find it easier to repeat the act again. Not because he wants to but because he has nothing to prevent him. His love and morals aren't stopping him now, his anger is too strong.
I am not judging him, I have been there, and I recognise the pattern. You can fix this, if you get on it now.
I wish you both all the best, and much happiness in your future together.
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