Hi TromboneJazz,
I thought about you today. Watched a movie that brought the memory of you to mind. How are you?
I hope things are doing better. Thinking of you.
Sea
trombonejazz wrote:Matters have been further complicated in that he just received a new job offer YESTERDAY, but it's in a town 4 hours away. So suddenly now he is making plans to move us all up there. I'm feeling sick to my stomach at the thought of moving so far away from anybody I know, and so I think I need to make a decision very soon. I wish this was easier and I wasn't so scared to leave. I definitely worry about his reaction to my telling him I don't want to go with him.
: ) I hope things can get better soon.trombonejazz wrote:Thank you for thinking of me. I appreciate good thoughts!
trombonejazz wrote:My therapist believes I should either go all the way - i.e. Tell him I want a divorce, or just keep trying. But I don't know if I agree with her. I still have hope that things could change, but I feel like I have to do something that will make him realize I'm serious about things having to change. She doesn't think I should move with him however, and she says living apart won't necessarily help because even if he says he has changed in a few months from now, there's no way I can know that for sure. So, she believes I'm just prolonging the inevitable.
trombonejazz wrote:And if he says no and doesn't agree to it, then I still am not sure what I will do.
trombonejazz wrote:If you have been in this position then I'm sure you understand. This is the most difficult thing I've ever been faced with, and it does take a lot of time and energy figuring it out. That's what I'm working on. And my emotions and dreams are all tangled up with it too. So it's really hard, but I will get there... I believe.
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