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I am 31 and have 2 daughters ages 4 and 6. Having issues with my 4 year old with delayed speech and I am concerned she may have Sensory Processing Disorder and Auditory Processing Dysfunction and maybe mild Autism/Aspergers. Also Pica (eating nonfoods eg paper, paint chips, etc). In the last two weeks she's tried to eat tinfoil, paper 2x and cat biscuits. She has also eaten paint flakes, hair, lint, dirt, feces (thankfully only 1x), bugs, and her snot which is pretty normal for kids LOL plus the usual playdough.... oh and stones.
She's had her hearing tested about 4x now and they tell us it's fine. So we have been referred to our GP to discuss developent disorders/Autism/Aspergers etc
My 6 year old had her eyesight checked at the doctors recently and on the 4th is having a proper eye exam at the optometrist. Her eyesight seems bad. She is behind at school. I wear glasses and am short and long sighted.