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Does this mean anything?

Postby Worried » Wed Feb 01, 2006 6:32 pm

Today I saw a mother pull down the pants of her 4 year old son in public and spank his bare bottom. At first I felt embarrassed and angry for the humiliation his mother had exacted on this boy. But then I realized I was sexually aroused by this. This really made me feel ashamed and worried. :oops: (I'm female). Does my arousal on witnessing this event mean something is wrong with me? (i.e., pedophilia, sado-masochism?)
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Postby Guest » Thu May 04, 2006 4:38 pm

Hi,

I wouldn't worry about this too much, our sexuality starts to develop from the time we are children and it could be that seeing this brought back some memory or a similer experiance as a child that brought you some sort of genital pleasure. Many children touch their genitals as a way to comfort themselves and maybe you did this as a small child to calm yourself after being spanked.
Who knows! I think that because we live in a society where sexula thoughts about children are so demonised that just by thinking that you shouldn't think or feel something you end up doing so.
If you were a peadophile you would have consistant sexula thoughts about children. So please don't worry and chalk it up to a quirk of your psyche!
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