Incestous Sexual Tension

My cousin and I are very close. When we were kids, we'd always go to each other's houses for the summer, and continued to hang out even until college when I moved into the city. Even then, she'd sometimes come over and stay over at my apartment, and we'd sleep on the same bed.

One time she was visiting, I happened to walk in on her fully nude as she got out of the shower and she was nonchalant about it, even talking to me as she was getting dressed. I couldn't believe it, she was just so hot! I couldn't help myself and directly wanked off in the shower.

Since then, I couldn't get her out of my head, and would sometimes catch glances and peeks while she's in the shower every time she comes to town.

After college, I went back home, and some things happened that she ended up staying with us. Now that we see each other every day, my urges seem to be building up, and I can't help but think about her every time I masturbate. But now, I try to stay away from her, even sometimes being cold to her just to keep myself from being too close and touchy-feely.

I so want to try something, and feel that she'd give in as she's living with us with nowhere to go, but I don't want to ruin whats left of our relationship, not to mention what our parents might feel. All I can do now is masturbate every night, even sometimes at work every time she visits me. It doesn't help that she very hot and tends to dress up really sexy, sometimes wearing only panties and a bra-less tank top when we eat meals and watch movies under the same blanket.

Please help!

...sometimes wearing only panties and a bra-less tank top when we eat meals and watch movies under the same blanket.

She's your cousin but also a house guest and should dress appropriately. You might want to tell her to please put some clothes on.

She's been staying with us for over 3 years, even while I was away in college, so she's not like a guest anymore.. and its not that she's wearing skimpy, it's her sleeping clothes, so I guess it's normal. And if I mention something about it, it just proves that I notice her and her body. It just turns me on and It's frustrating that I can't do anything about it.

Uh, I think it's normal to put on some pants or something when a person is around other people, family and otherwise. I'm surprised your parents haven't asked her to at least not show up to breakfast in panties, unless you are all walking around in your undies!

janjones wrote:Uh, I think it's normal to put on some pants or something when a person is around other people

Brits will have to read this twice!

Yeah, well, with other people around, like guests, she does put some real clothes on, but being really warm almost all year round, I can't really blame her. I guess I'll just have to find the right time to drop the ball without looking like a hormone-raged teenager.

Any suggestion how I can tell her without her knowing that I'm uncomfortable with it? As much as I don't want to admit it, I do appreciate the view, it just tends to stimulate the libido. Also, we tend to be conservative and not mention sexually related stuff with each other.

Just warn her that you are a straight man and got your urges and that she's no longer a kid, but a developed woman. If you do it in a joking way, you might achieve two things:
1) she starts being aware of you (unless she already was and was just teasing you)
2) your relationship doesn't get ruined because, if she reacted in the worst way, you could say you were joking

"Jokes" want to tell the truth, but you can make them pass as jokes (indeed) in the worst scenario.

Just make some pun, from time to time, about how she would make men fall for her, or start teasing her.

In the case you wouldn't be content of just stopping her (unwilling) teasing, you can ask her out (with the excuse that you are cousins), or set up "events" that would make you closer in another way.

If can't do none of this, or the situation really gets unbearable, you have no other choices but talk to her, alone, and make her understand that you see her as a woman and that you are suffering. Your relationship might freeze up, but it would always be better because:
1) You would stop "suffering"
2) If the relationship freezes up, you'll get enough distant and eventually "forget" her, lessening the pain and starting being open to other females (probably, hopefully :S)

PS: Who cares if she's your cousin, she's still a girl with everything at the right place