19 year old pedo seeking help.

Hi. I'm 19 years old and have a strong sexual attraction to girls from ages 9-20. It's not like I'm strictly pedo, I'm a normal sexually active young man. However, when I see an adorable little girl (that I'm not related to) part of me can't help but to check her out as if she were someone my age. I have these fantasies, too. I always imagine myself developing a relationship with my next-door neighbor's 9 year old daughter. It's actually more of a romantic fantasy than a sexual one, but the sexual desire is there, and I'm not sure if I should be ashamed of it. I just wish that I could make her fall in love with me and just wait til she's older. Am I sick and twisted?

Feeling ashamed benefits nobody. That said, I think it would be a bad idea for you to have an agenda of making her fall in love with you, however, you shouldn't feel guilty over a fantasy that you haven't acted on. I'm sure many people have some feelings and desires that aren't socially acceptable and that they keep to themselves. I don't think that labeling yourself as "sick" is helpful.

I think that you are in a fortunate position in that you are also attracted to people of your own age. This means that, despite your attraction to young girls, you have the option of pursuing relationships that won't cause problems for you or your potential partners. I also think you should accept that you are attracted to younger girls, but not let those feelings define the way you feel about yourself, and try to pursue relationships that are socially appropriate.

I blame 4chan

lmao

I see preteen girls this way too, ages 10-17. I don't really care much about sex. I rather experience real love, an innocent crush of a preteen girl than have sex with a girl my age (27). I wish I could be the age of the girl I like, they are usually around 11-14 years old.