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Postby Blben » Mon Sep 19, 2011 2:25 pm

I have this moron that keeps sending me private messages acting like I can just turn off my pedophilia and can abandon it and just curious if people that are not pedophiles think it's that easy for people like me? I am not going to say who this idiot is because it knows who it is. I just don't understand how some people act all high and mighty about themselves and think they are so much better than everyone.

So do you think that it's that easy to do? I mean if it was that easy dont you think I would have left it years ago? The way that some people think just baffles my mind!
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Postby dan1966 » Mon Sep 19, 2011 2:57 pm

I have this moron that keeps sending me private messages


first I've only sent you one. Second, I didn't call you names did I? So why do you resort to such useless namecalling?

acting like I can just turn off my pedophilia and can abandon it and just curious if people that are not pedophiles think it's that easy for people like me?


All I said was there's a choice. Of course it's not easy but there's facing up to the problem and dealing with it or accepting this "lifestyle" which is more of a sexual obsession and you can live the miserable existance that comes from it.

I am not going to say who this idiot is because it knows who it is.


once again the useless name calling.

I just don't understand how some people act all high and mighty about themselves and think they are so much better than everyone.


How are some people "better than others" or "high minded". You just posted a problem with having these moments where you can't concentrate because of your affinity to children and I just gave you the short answer.

So do you think that it's that easy to do? I mean if it was that easy dont you think I would have left it years ago? The way that some people think just baffles my mind!


There's nothing easy about it but the choices seem clear as to dealing with it...no and rebuke it or accept it and live with what this sexual addiction has and is doing to people. You just decided to go off ranting and raving.

And linking political parties and Christians to biggots is a well used excuse for people who won't face their own responsibility in dealing with their problems, you can hate God all you want, blame OCD or some other of the latest clinical excusery making the rounds on Doctor Oz but the final absolute of the situation is "you".....you have the problem, you make the choice one way or the other.

There's nothing "high minded" in seeking spiritual aid, putting yourself under charge of an ulltimate authority over yourself be it God, a family member, a close friend if it will help improve your own life and offer a better future than one having to live in the shaddows, which is what the majority of sexually addicted people do. History doesn't bode well on pedophilia and given that choice I chose no more.

So you have this problem of looking at children, if you didn't want advice and help then you wouldn't have posted it to start with, I just decided to talk person to person rather than post it in the open but that seems to have been a bad choice given how you blew up over it.
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Postby jasmin » Mon Sep 19, 2011 3:03 pm

Guys, please don't fight here. Blben, if you have questions about this stuff or you want to complain about someone, PM a mod or admin. Dan, stop PMing people if they tell you they are not comfortable with it.
Sorry, but I'll lock this thread.
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