Hi, I'm a pedophile.

Oh, ok! You'll able to PM me now!

Also, there is an 80+ page thread at diskusjon.no, "Spør en pedofil! (Ask a pedophile!) ".

You may find it interesting to read the reactions and views of hardware.no, Norway's probably biggest nerd-forum.
Interesting, in that they for the most part are amazingly intelligent, objective, and rational people.

Also the forum at freak.no - who are a bit more crazy - might conceivably offer you some pretty wadical alternative views, were you to post there.

Sorry for the late reply, but thanks!
I'll check it out

I'll marry you, fullupfedup

hi i really dont think you should label yourself as a pedophile because you liked a boy 2 years younger than yourself as you are still a child yourself maybe socially it not acceptable but thats not your issue..what made me sad about your post is that you said you wanted a husband and kids and now you are afraid thats out of reach because your are attracted to some people yonger than yourself pedophillia is the attraction to prepubesent children wait till your older and then see how you feel you are still a child enjoy your childhood..wishing you all the best

You are so right, kaisan!

this quote kinda cinches it for me ...

I remember having a crush on my friends younger brother, he was 2 years younger than us.I still think he's cute, even though he's older now. He has the best personality.

I do not think you were attracted to him because he is 2 years younger than you. I think you had the attraction cuz he was cute and had a wonderful personality.

I agree with kaisan. You need to be a kid and have fun. Hang out with your friends and if you like a guy a year or 2 younger so what! You are both still teenagers!

Just because you were 'sexual' at a young age doesn't mean anything either. It just means you did something that you thought felt good and even masturbating everyday is just fine and normal!

I still watch child porn, though.

If you are truly watching child porn and not just "teen looking couples" having sex you need to stop this now. Will you willingly admit you are the one watching this stuff if it is discovered? Or will you let your parents or siblings take the fall?

My feelings are that you are not a pedophile.

Now go to school, hang out with your friends, and be a teenager! Quit worrying and have fun!

You don't get aroused by the idea of having a submissive adult under your control? Some adults would enjoy to be your "slave", they would petty much do what ever you want. Maybe being in control is what you enjoy and you think that people of your same age or older would be in control of you and that turns you off. You can order your slave "to act as a child" if being in control is not want aroused you, maybe being in control and the other person role playing a child might do the trick for you.

I think is wroth the shot to some day (18+) try to find a submissive adult and have a sex session with him, see if you enjoy being in total control of him.

That is the only opinion I can give, other people already mentioned other useful stuff and I would just be repeating what they said.

I'm glad somebody other than me said that - simply because were it to come from me, it would be pretty obvious that it was biased. *cough*

But it's very true, and in fact I have also read a short article by a Norwegian sexologist, recommending that men relinquish control by letting their partner masturbate them, to help train their endurance / sexual response, so that they don't just rush towards orgasm but instead take their time.

Simply as a matter-of-fact practical tidbit, not just kinky.

Also on the practical side of things, fullupfedup is 16 years old - which is legal in Norway - and there is nothing preventing her from for example signing up to a dating service (such as sukker.no I guess) just to see what the response is.

^^ That's an interesting thought. Perhaps you could express what might be pedo / hebephilia through ageplay with adults when you're 18+? It's worth considering. You could even experiment with it online. I did that once, as an exploration of age regression (adults turning into kids). Didn't prefer it, but it was similar enough to be arousing.

Yeah, I don't know much about ageplay, I'm just saying that...

Whilst it isn't something that is often talked about between men, what with concepts of masculinity getting in the way and not wanting to sound like a perv, there is a sizable proportion of grown men who do indeed find it a major turn on to be dominated by a younger girl.

One picks up on these things throughout the years, and I think that's worth making a note of.
Sex isn't just some stale "ol' in-out-in-out eh know wha' I'm saying guv'nor?" marital sex through a hole in the sheets in the missionary position for the sole purpose of procreation only, but can be a quite stimulating game if you are confident in your partner and willing to let yourself go a little.