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Re: Hatred towards Pedophiles

Postby S3 » Tue Sep 29, 2009 6:39 pm

Cider wrote:When the child porn I had downloaded was taken away I was far more likely to do some thing to a child. My days changed alot. They went from downloading child porn and taking pictures of kids playing outside to siting in my chiar feeling like doing things to kids and babies more than ever b4.

There are controversial "legal" sites that specialize in erotic non-pornographic photos of children. These are made possible by child model photographers who sign a contract with the parents and who never force the child to do anything against his/her will. Some of these photos are nude and can be found elsewhere, (which I avoid), but the sites I'm talking about feature exclusively non-nude shots.

This is the closest thing to "legal" child porn that I've come across other than lolicon, (the animated/drawn version of child porn). I typically prefer hardcore lolicon to the much milder child model shots, though I find some photos of non-nude real girls very exciting, especially certain non-nude candid shots taken by amateurs (members of the communities that promote "safe" child erotica). I collect nothing in the way of a porn stash. All the things I view can be found by anyone, cop or criminal, so I'm far less tempted to do anything illegal. Still, I avoid these sites and all other pornography as long as I can deal with my stress in healthier, much better ways because I realize that the real girls in these shots are, sadly, often abused off-camera.

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Re: Hatred towards Pedophiles

Postby 1Ste » Tue Sep 29, 2009 7:17 pm

Im pretty sure there are no sites like that.


Its not like I haven't looked..

Edit: or its just me, can't seem to find them.
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Re: Hatred towards Pedophiles

Postby S3 » Tue Sep 29, 2009 8:52 pm

There are 2 or 3 main image boards that I know of, and countless model sites, but the image boards which make access to all themost erotic "safe" pics easy are not found easily through Google and other search engines for various reasons. I only go to the safest and largest one typically. There are other sites too, not only model sites and image boards, but those have varying degrees of nudity and are either heavily password protected or unstable, and often rumored to be traps set up by the authorities. Even the large self-proclaimed safe sites are said to be heavily trolled by anti-pedophiles which I've seen proof of. I have close acquaintances in one of these communities and they've introduced me to other sources for both legal and illegal erotica, but let me reiterate, I only use safe images and lolicon, (the legality of which depends on your country). Incidentally, the vast majority of the active though little-less anonymous part of the community hate child abuse and, though almost all of them have used it at some point I suspect, they disapprove of most child porn.

Of course lolicon is rampant because it's legal in Japan and distributed in the US and parts of Europe, excluding the UK.
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Re: Hatred towards Pedophiles

Postby Butterfly Faerie » Tue Sep 29, 2009 8:55 pm

Sadly there are sites like that and the police etc do try to get rid of them, but a lot of sick people out there who do join, it's sickening, anyone viewing or starting a site and exploiting children like that, jail time immediately... extremely sick.
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Re: Hatred towards Pedophiles

Postby S3 » Tue Sep 29, 2009 9:07 pm

Yes Buterfly Faerie. The ones that are based outside of the US and Britain are the ones that typically remain, though the owners of the image board I've frequented in the past are known alcohol/drug-addicts and not very good about keeping the site up sometimes. Still, they manage to keep all underage nudity out, but Iagree, it is exploitation and wouldn't be tolerated in the US, though the penalty for viewing non-nude consensual photographs, as far as I know, is nill.
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Re: Hatred towards Pedophiles

Postby Butterfly Faerie » Tue Sep 29, 2009 9:12 pm

It wouldn't be tolerated here either, wish other countries cared more about that... sad world we live in.. :(
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Re: Hatred towards Pedophiles

Postby S3 » Tue Sep 29, 2009 9:15 pm

S3 wrote:I have close acquaintances in one of these communities and they've introduced me to other sources for both legal and illegal erotica, but let me reiterate, I stick to safe images and lolicon, (the legality of which depends on your country).

Butterfly Faerie wrote:anyone viewing or starting a site and exploiting children like that, jail time immediately... extremely sick.

A vamipre is still a vampire if he drinks only donated blood. I'm guilty of contributing to the exploitation of children and hate that fact even if I am more careful than most.

It is a sad world, Butterfly Faerie :cry:
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Re: Hatred towards Pedophiles

Postby -LostOne- » Thu Oct 01, 2009 9:28 pm

What's the difference between those sites and shopping catologs? I haven't seen those kind of sites so I can't make a proper judgetment. Tho.. no nudity? What's better? Exploiting children for horny pedos to jerk off over or exploiting children for the masses to fund multi million dollar companies to sell their products?

Either way, I'm sure the children don't have a say when they dragged into either photoshoots.
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Re: Hatred towards Pedophiles

Postby S3 » Fri Oct 02, 2009 7:03 am

Something funny I found: Not entirely in good taste because of the language used, but I found it highly entertaining.
http://www.playlist.com/searchbeta/tracks#pedophile
You can listen by clicking play next to the track listed. The one I'm talking about is the Pedophile Crucifixions bit by Christopher Titus.
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Re: Hatred towards Pedophiles

Postby ghost5of7 » Sun Oct 04, 2009 1:07 pm

Thinking isn't really doing, so there's that thresh-hold before my "burn em" feelings about pedophiles applies. Fantasy can be worrisome, but they can be looked at as one's exploring his/her own sexuality. I guess I don't see any reason why that fantasy exploration of turn on and boundaries can't extend into the youth area a bit.. so long as THAT stays a fantasy.


As to actual active pedophiles my feelings are pretty harsh. Hate is one, anger, disgust, revolting, etc are some others. Some people argue that pedophilia is a result of the predators own abusive childhood.. In such cases, I would assume that the pedos own past should teach him NOT to abuse a child for he's better equipped to understand how traumatizing it is.
I dunno if its beyond the scope of your question, but it did remind me of a conversation I once had with my brother in law. Pedophilia came up in the discussion. His take was "I wouldn't KILL the guy for abusing the boys (my nephews)
That'd send me away to prison and mean no dad there for the kids." My responce was to point out that an uncle is less critical family member, so would find and deal with the guy "if ever". Not likely to happen of course.
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