aroused by the thought of paedophilia

I always think a man abusing a child to be quite arousing, like the power over the child, not a problem for me, i just used to find the idea really arousing (not as much now)
(im female btw. )


as well as the idea of rape roleplay, myself being taken over and having no control. abused to an extent. not too far like.


These things dont bother me tho. i think a lot of ppl have odd sexual phantasies and such?

Born,

I think you need to see a therapist who specializes in sexuality. I'm done posting here because frankly the fact that you find the sexual abuse of a child arousing disgusts me to no end.

BTE, I agree that you should probably seek help in finding out why you are having these fantasies. Although I've heard of rape fantasies, your fantasy of seeing a man sexually abuse a child is a bit different. The only reason I haven't concluded you are personally a child predator is that you fantasize about a man molesting a child and you're a female. Is there a possibility that you were abused as a child or that you saw it happen to someone else? However, if you find the idea of you abusing a child arousing, please get serious help immediately. There is definitely a reason behind these thoughts, and in order to have a healthy sex life, you need to find out what is making you tick this way.

From what I've read, there are a couple of explanations for the rape fantasies. For one thing, if you are normally a dominant or controlling person, that could bring out the desire for someone to dominate you... hence the rape fantasy. Second, sexual guilt could play a role since your fantasy is your own creation... therefore you are seeking punishment for your sexual desires. I don't know that any of these apply to you, and the voyeuristic molestation fantasy is a new angle I've not heard about before.

My advice? Go see a shrink and look for a book that might shed some light. Your fantasies are not exactly within the bounds of normality.

seanetal wrote:Born,

I think you need to see a therapist who specializes in sexuality. I'm done posting here because frankly the fact that you find the sexual abuse of a child arousing disgusts me to no end.

I agree 100% with this comment.

well no, im not a monster at all!
it isnt like it was before.
i dont think of it usually, im not sick.!
it did used to tick over in the past. and i would NEVER abuse a child!


and i would never allow a man to abuse a child if i was present, dont get me wrong here


it was merely an imagination type thing yknw?



nothing further. i dunno maybe it is sick. but like i say i dont think of it on a regualar basis.


i will mention it at some point tho. i was never abused myself no.
sorry i really didnt mean to offend im honestly not a pervert!

Hey, I'm no therapist, but maybe the child in the fantasy is you and you just want to feel dominated and maybe safe, as your rape fantasy would suggest.
Perhapse you didn't feel safe and protected as a child and that's why you're atracted to that idea of controll...
Just my thoughts.

Born, the fact that abuse of this type turns you on indicates that you need something. I don't know what that something is, but a therapist would have an idea. Imagination or no, the fact is that you fantasize about the victimization of children. That disturbs me.

Born.to.end wrote:I always think a man abusing a child to be quite arousing, like the power over the child, not a problem for me, i just used to find the idea really arousing (not as much now)
(im female btw. )


as well as the idea of rape roleplay, myself being taken over and having no control. abused to an extent. not too far like.


These things dont bother me tho. i think a lot of ppl have odd sexual phantasies and such?

Borntoend,
I am taken aback by you honesty. You as a female or male should not be turned on by the abuse of a CHILD.

You should seek help for this, even if it is just in your mind.

If you can not do this, you need to speak to someone.

If you wanted a reaction you got it. When I read your post it made me actually almost puke.

I have nothing else to say, because none of it would be helpful.

Well, since you don't seem bothered, no condolences are necessary. Consider yourself lucky you don't feel sick/twisted/worthless because of your paraphilia.

I have a feeling you get aroused by children being controlled because you are identifying yourself AS the child. Since you are submissive and enjoy the fantasy of being raped, a child being controlled is much like watching the aspect of sexuality that you most enjoy.

And yes, I'd say paraphilias are common. I also think masochism is fairly common in females. It really seems to be a biological thing. It fits in quite nicely with evolutionary theory.

You sound fairly sadistic in your post... I sure hope you aren't harming anyone. Most people would probably feel some sort of remorse or guilt for enjoying the suffering of a child. That is what makes me a little uncomfortable.

am i right in thinking you imagine yourself in the role of the abused child?..thats the impression i got from your post.

from the fact you like to fantasize about being a rape victim...well thats why i thought it was just the being overpowered thing that yiu like the thought of. theres nothing worng with having fantasys....but people are very sensitive to the thought of a child being in a sexual fantasy...or abused in anyway. many people who visit this site have been victims of child abuse (me included).thats why you had so many negative posts.

i didnt get the impression you wanted to abuse a child though...just that you like the thought of being submissive...am i right?