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introverted, difficult to relate

Postby comando0110 » Fri Nov 13, 2015 5:26 pm

k so im a hebephile also im introverted. knowing this http://mhamic.org/sources/smiljanich&briere.htm who is introverted?(and likes little ones) this is about my curiosity more than anything. what do you think about this report?
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Re: introverted, difficult to relate

Postby sprooglestrewft » Fri Nov 13, 2015 7:29 pm

The writer of this piece seems to contradict themselves here:

They also exhibited no differences on the socialization or sexual repression scales, in the use of forced- or child-oriented pornography, or in any of the attitudinal measures.

They did differ from the others in the following ways: they exhibited lower self-esteem, a lower socialization score


Regardless, I have always felt that my extreme level of introversion is the most likely cause of my feelings for prepubescents, it's not that I have always been this way. My Introversion really started in middle school around the time that most of my peers were entering puberty. I retreated into my mind and lost nearly all motivation to socialize. Before that I remember being a lot more enthusiastic about socializing even though I was very shy/quiet. Now my mind is far more preoccupied with ideas than people.
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Postby Gemini_Incarnate » Sat Nov 14, 2015 1:57 am

Well, I view myself as introverted (and my MyersBriggs Scores agree with me) and I definitely like little ones. I did use to suffer with self esteem issues (and sometimes still do, but I don't feel it's related to my attractions to children.
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Re: introverted, difficult to relate

Postby manbehindthemask » Sun Nov 15, 2015 4:36 am

For people like us, I think introvert is a survival skill :P

I started out a shy kid, Beat the hell out of some bullies in jr high school and became infamous. From that time forward, until I was about 23, I got laid often. I could have continued the trend, but by then it was highly illegal. I made the decision, to stop. Last time I made love was with a 14 year old when I was 23, hurt my heart bigtime to stop. My last true love, and I had to break both our hearts. Have had plenty of sex since then, but it was not the same. Taking a girl home from the bar..... Happened many times, but it was not love. At some point in my life I decided to stop with that, been celibate ever since.
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