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People are generally 'deviants'

Postby cumulusjames » Mon Oct 19, 2015 9:02 pm

According to the alexa site rankings for adult content non hetro-normative sexual behaviors are high on peoples agenda.

No 3 is G.e-hentai.org - Cartoon porn.

No 4 is Cam4.Com - Voyeurism.

No 9 is Fetlife.com - Bondage, BDSM, Fetish, Leather.

No 10 is Adam4adam.com - for gay men.

No 12 is Xcams.com - more voyeurism.

No 20 is Furryaffinity.net - a furry site (I would never expected a furry site in the top 20!)

No 22 is another hentai site

No 25 is Fling.com - for swingers

No 29 is another hentai site

No 30 is Squirt.Org - A site which lists gay cruising spots

No 34 is Voyeurweb.com - another voyeur site.

Voyeurism is especially high on peoples agenda, apparently. Is this not a paraphilia in the DSM?
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Postby baigisae » Mon Oct 19, 2015 9:35 pm

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Re: People are generally 'deviants'

Postby The_Ghoul » Tue Oct 20, 2015 2:24 am

yes people are generally sick and 75% of men are aroused by little girls. Doesn't make it right. We must rise above our animal origins to become the evolved species who will end suffering.
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Re: People are generally 'deviants'

Postby Contro » Tue Oct 20, 2015 9:29 am

Deviance is immensely satisfying. Letting go of all of the socially conditioned beliefs and indulging in your own pleasure without consideration is a great feeling. It's like "look what I'm doing and you can't stop me!"
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Re: People are generally 'deviants'

Postby The_Ghoul » Tue Oct 20, 2015 9:56 pm

Contro wrote:Deviance is immensely satisfying. Letting go of all of the socially conditioned beliefs and indulging in your own pleasure without consideration is a great feeling. It's like "look what I'm doing and you can't stop me!"


but they can stop us , and wreck our lives while they are at it. Ever been to prison? It's not fun , and it's not worth getting my rocks off.
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Re: People are generally 'deviants'

Postby Contro » Wed Oct 21, 2015 1:19 pm

The_Ghoul wrote:but they can stop us , and wreck our lives while they are at it.

From doing it again yeah, if they catch you.

Ever been to prison?

No.
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Re: People are generally 'deviants'

Postby Prairie gal » Wed Oct 21, 2015 4:57 pm

I don't agree that people are generally deviants. Selfish, yes, but not deviant.
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Re: People are generally 'deviants'

Postby cumulusjames » Wed Oct 21, 2015 5:22 pm

Prairie gal wrote:I don't agree that people are generally deviants. Selfish, yes, but not deviant.


Prairie what deviant means in relation to sex is any non hetro-normative, that is, basic sexual intercourse in between a man and a women. The woman into leather and domination is a deviant, for example. She is considered by many a pervert and these things come under 'pariphalias' which are in the DSM as mental illnesses.

I think my point is that if the mass of people are kinky, then kink is not 'abnormal' and the mass of people cannot be mentally ill?

There was an episode of American Dad which I thought apt, something about everyone has thier kink you just have to find yours.

I am more and more convinced that the explanation for the existence of Fox News and the Conservatives is that they have not found their kink.
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Re: People are generally 'deviants'

Postby Contro » Thu Oct 22, 2015 12:52 pm

cumulusjames wrote:Voyeurism is especially high on peoples agenda, apparently. Is this not a paraphilia in the DSM?

Yes, but voyeurism is an interest just like blowjobs. It doesn't mean all of the people viewing those types of videos have a paraphilia, it just means there's a lot of people with that interest.
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