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My friend is a pedophile

Postby ReSSeR » Mon Oct 19, 2015 5:21 pm

Hello my friend is still young and he told me that he likes Little Girls. He say's between 3-10. This all started when he constantly got rejected by girls his own age. He don't know what he can do. He is looking for little girls outside to get in a talk etc. Is this normal? Can you tell me more about this?
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Re: My friend is a pedophile

Postby Serious Lee » Tue Oct 20, 2015 3:49 pm

How old is your friend?
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Re: My friend is a pedophile

Postby YouthRightsRadical » Thu Oct 22, 2015 1:34 am

Is what normal?

I'm a pedophile with a similar age of attraction. There's nothing wrong with being attracted to little girls, and your friend showed a great deal of trust in you by telling you about it. The number of people in my life I've trusted enough to tell can be counted on one hand.

I know in my case, I took a little rejection from "age appropriate" peers and quit on the entire idea as well. The thing is, I only quit because I was only going for "age appropriate" peers in the first place because that was what was expected of me. Being attracted to little girls means my chances to succeed in romance are basically zero, but that knowledge didn't kill my interest in them.

It's also important to remember that being attracted to someone isn't the same thing as acting on those attractions. I have never acted out sexually with a little girl, and the overwhelming majority of pedophiles never do.

If you have any further questions, I'm sure plenty of people here will be happy to talk.
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Re: My friend is a pedophile

Postby metal » Fri Oct 23, 2015 7:46 am

I find myself agreeing with YRR again, maybee I'm just agreeable. 8) But also as SL asked how old is your friend. If you think they may be struggling you can direct them here lots to learn, people for suport or he can just watch as I did for a few years. (struggled to rephrase that in a better way :shock: ) Any way if you have questions ask people will get back to you. To answer the other question is it normal, yeah if he feels its is only choice, is it healthy NO.
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